from R home to yours

Lovers Day

2012-02-14T19:30:00.000-08:00

The boys and I celebrated Valentines day by baking cookies.

Simple but fun and so delicious.

Brandon and I celebrated the day by going on a date.

We went to Olive Garden (hands down one of my favorite places) and then saw a movie.

Again, simple but completely enjoyable!

So grateful for the adorable men in my life. :)

I'm a lucky, lucky girl.

Happy Valentines Day!

4 Months

2012-02-07T16:49:00.000-08:00

Sportin their Chico State shirts for their 4 month pics.

Connor

Christian

Connor - Christian

Cali

2012-02-06T18:10:00.000-08:00

Our trip to California was quite the success. Now that I have babies I feel like I miss my family more. Being so far away is hard but I'm very blessed to have a husband who's willing to fly us all the way across the country to see them. :)

The boys getting ready for their big travel day.

My little brother, Ryan, was adorable with the babies. He played with them and loved on them. He melts my heart.

Most of our trip we just relaxed and hung out around my parent's house. However, my mom did offer to baby sit for an entire day and you know we couldn't turn that down. So, we decided to visit San Francisco with my brother, Tyler, and his wife, Natalie.

We couldn't have asked for better weather. It was gorgeous. The sun was out and there was a slight breeze. We didn't rush the day but instead walked at a leisurely pace and took our time doing a few fun things rather than hurry from one activity to the next.

One of my favorite things we did was ride the trolly into down town. I don't know why I get such enjoyment out of that. I guess I just love seeing the city from the moving trolly-car, holding onto the rail and imagining I live there, and of course watching Brandon shake his booty at people walking by.

But lets be honest... What is our favorite, favorite thing about San Fran?!

It's obvious.. Ghirardellis.

We ate our hearts out and it was worth every... single... calorie!

While we were in Chico we got to see my sweet Grandpa whom I love and adore. Of course the boys felt the same way. :)

This trip included a "first time for me". I went to my very first concert. Crazy that I've never been to one since music is one of my passions. My mom, sisters, and I saw Eastin Corbin and it was fantastic. We are big country fans and enjoyed watching him perform. We also greatly enjoyed making fun of my mom as she danced the night away. It was hysterical.

My amazing sisters and outstanding momma.

Our vacation went by way too fast but I'm thrilled we were able to go. I adore my family.

Home

2012-01-20T08:17:00.000-08:00

We were suppose to go to California in Februrary to see my family but after an unexpected change in events we decided to move the date up. We leave tomorrow!

Happy day. :)

All Smiles

2012-01-16T12:18:00.000-08:00

When I was pregnant I prayed for happy and healthy babies. The Lord blessed me with both. :)

Christian - Connor

Connor

Christian

Connor - Christian

Christian - Connor

I can never get enough of these 2.

This Is How You Do 2

2012-01-09T11:44:00.000-08:00

A Day Out

2012-01-08T19:45:00.000-08:00

Yesterday we decided to spend the day out and about. We chose a new burger place (burgerworks) and were very happy with it. The fries were heavenly.

After lunch we ran errands. We went to Costco, Kohls, the mall, and on our way home we stopped at Dave and Buster's to play games. The weather was perfect and the trip out much needed.
Love spending time with my boys. :)

Three Months Already?! What!!!

2012-01-07T07:42:00.000-08:00

I can not believe my boys are 3 months today. I was looking at their newborn pictures last night and they were sooo small. It amazes me how much they've changes in a few short months. They smile on command, try to talk, kick like crazy in the bath, track you with their eyes, and are happy for hours.

I have said this before and will say it again, I have fallen completely and hopelessly in love. :)

Christian - Connor

Seriously, does it get any cuter than this?!

Goodbye Christmas

2012-01-03T11:46:00.000-08:00

Christmas has come and gone once again. I'll never understand how the holidays seems to fly by so fast.

This year we spent Christmas with Brandon's parents in Stafford, VA. Brandon's sister, Bree and her finance, and his brother, Chris and his wife Hanna, came out to visit. We had a jolly good time. :)

Here are some pictures from our sweet holiday.

Brandon making a gingerbread house

Toni, Hanna, me, Bree, and Hay at the temple visitor center

Our little family enjoying the temple lights

We stopped for ice cream on our way home from the temple

Bree and the boys snugglin

Nana and Connor Christmas Eve

Christian

Hay, Bree, Sam, Christian, and Connor kickin it in onesies

Chris, Hanna, me, and Brandon sportin our new Cowboys pj's

Christmas morning

Bree and Sam

Hanna and Chris

The day after Christmas we went to the Marine museum. This is Brandon and I practicing our sharp shooting.

Yes, I know you're all wondering who's the better shooter... ME of course!!!

Farewell Christmas. I look forward to seeing you again this year. :)

Remembering Christ At Christmas

2011-12-24T13:51:00.000-08:00

I feel like Christmas is overrun with commercials, candy, trees, over spending on gifts, etc...

So, this year our family has been trying extra hard to remember and be mindful of why we celebrate Christmas.

Here is a list of some of the things we've done...

1. We delivered 4 plates of fudge to random houses in West Point. We wrote completely dorky notes, left the plates on the doorstep, knocked, then ran. It was loads of fun and we felt soo sneaky. :)

2. Each night we've been reading from this book my mom made me called The 24 Days of Christmas. There's a song, scripture, and story for each day of December until Christmas day. Some of the stories are silly but most are inspirational and centered around Christ.

3. Secret Santa. A few nights ago Brandon and I, his parents and employees, and the missionaries went to Walmart, bought a bunch of stuff, wrapped it all, then delivered it to a family in need. It was exhilarating and brings joy not only to the family, but also to us.

4. Each year, at the bank near Brandon's office, a list of children in need is provided for those who would like to give. This year we picked two kids, bought them each several gifts, wrapped them, then gave them back to the bank to drop off. I wish we could see the look on their little faces. How sweet they must be.

5. And lastly, we went to the temple to see the lights and feel the spirit. It was beautiful.

I'm so grateful for the example, teachings, and continuous love of a perfect older brother.

Daddy's Ball Game & Sunday Morning

2011-12-18T16:49:00.000-08:00

Basketball

Brandon is in two basketball leagues and had a couple games last week. We decided to venture out to both.

The boys hanging out before the game.

Connor (above), Christian (below)

Daddy at his favorite spot on the court. The three point line.

Connor and I cheering for Daddy

After the game the boys had baths and snuggled with us until it was time for bed.

Connor (above), Christian (below)

Haylea came to the second game as well as a couple of the players wives. We had our own cheering section as we were the only women there. :)

Connor and Hay hay

Brandon playing hard for a second win.

Given my little man some sugar

Sunday Morning

This morning we dressed the boys in their church sweaters. My mom knitted them and I'm pretty sure they're the cutest clothes the boys will ever wear. I was dying!

Christian, Daddy, and Connor

Christian is our early bird. He takes after his mommy and doesn't mind getting up early (and by early I mean 7am, no one should have to get up earlier than that).

Connor on the other hand likes to sleep in. So, he slept through the pictures.

Christian and Mommy

Connor and Mommy

Family Christmas Party

2011-12-14T13:25:00.000-08:00

Last Saturday we hosted a family Christmas party. All we did was eat and visit. Who could want anything more? It was bliss.

Haylea, Christian, Diane, and Paige

Nancy, Brandon, Toni, one of the twins, and Poncho

Nicole and I

Ben, Ila, and Amanda

Love my man

The wonderful Borland Family

The kiddos

Ben, Diane, and Amanda

Amanda and Ben

Hay, and Nancy

Taylor and the boys

Blakely

Toni and Cate

Steve and Nicole

Tinsley and Ila

Cate, Whit, and Hay

Lookin at something

Whit, Hay, Amanda, and Cate

Love the girls!

Tinsley, Haylea, Lady, and Ila

Loving on Tinsley. What a doll.

Visiting

Poncho, Nancy, Diane, and Betty

Brandon and Ben

Taylor and David

My man in action

I had to do this picture in x-large. This girl... Melts my heart!

We loved having everyone over and already can't wait to do it again next year. Thanks to all for coming. We love you!

Two Months

2011-12-09T12:05:00.000-08:00

Two months and just starting to sleep through the night.

Happy, happy day!!

Christian-Connor

FHE

2011-12-06T14:49:00.000-08:00

This last Saturday we finally got our tree. I say finally because I'm the kind of person who wants a tree before Thanksgiving. We got the tree up and realized we only had enough lights to decorate half of it. So, it remained half lit until Monday evening. But I will say, it looks lovely now. :)

We got the boys dressed for our tree search and had them wear these adorable hats my mom made (thank you gramzie!!). Their heads are finally big enough.

Our wonderful smelling tree.

One of Brandon's policy holders got us this ornament. So sweet.

After the tree was finished we had FHE. We had a little lesson then watched my favorite church video. So inspirational and reminds me why we celebrate Christmas.

Then we indulged. Well kinda. I attempted to make fondue. For some reason I thought all you needed was chocolate. Not so. I burned the first batch but the second wasn't so bad even though it was missing several ingredients.

Next time we need strawberries.

It wasn't quite as smooth as I'd hoped. But next time I'm hoping for perfection.

Christian wasn't happy because we wouldn't share the chocolate with him. ;)

But Connor was all smiles.

I love my family and I love having FHE.

Boys at 8 Weeks

2011-12-03T11:21:00.000-08:00

The boys had their 8th week check up yesterday.

Christian weighs 11 lbs 3 oz and is 22.7 inches long. Connor weighs 10 lbs 7 oz and is 23 inches long.

They got their first shots. Heart breaking. But they're growing very well and the doctor said they look great.

We love our boys. :)

Christian

Connor

Connor and Christian

Enjoy. :)

A Few Shots From Thanksgiving

2011-11-29T14:06:00.000-08:00

This year Thanksgiving was a little more quiet than normal. Coming from a family with 8 kids and having a mom who likes to invite other families over for the big meal, only having 5 adults and 2 babies around was strange. However, the food was still amazing and the company wonderful. I can't believe Thanksgiving has passed. This time of year goes by too fast.

As we sat around the dinner table each of us said a few things we're thankful for. This year (well, every year really), I am most grateful for my family. My ENTIRE family. I must have done something right to deserve such fabulous brothers, sisters, parents, in-laws, cousins, aunts, uncles, babies, and of course.. my husband.

How I love you ALL.

Here are some of the pictures we took last week.

Connor

Christian

Christian lovin on Daddy

Christian

Connor flexing his muscles

Connor enjoying the bath

Christian

The boys snuggled on the love sack

Aunty Hay and Christian

The boys shopping for a Christmas tree with Nana and Pops

Our little family

Hay, the boys, and I waiting for Daddy and Pops to attach the Christmas tree to the car

The girls

Me and my best friend.

HAPPY HOLIDAYS!

Date Night On Saturday Afternoon

2011-11-22T14:23:00.000-08:00

This last Saturday Brandon and I went on a date. We had planned on taking the babies but Haylea, Brandon's sister, got home just before we left and insisted on watching them for us. We just couldn't say no. :)

For our date we went to a newly discovered Thai restaurant we love.

It was nice to spend some one-on-one time with my adorable and oh so handsome husband, and the food was soo yummy.

The Thai place was conveniently right next to the Cheesecake Factory.

We couldn't resist.

After stuffing our faces we did our last bit of Christmas shopping and headed home.

It was a relaxing afternoon and I loved getting to have my hubz all to myself.

Baking

2011-11-17T13:38:00.000-08:00

Connor and I went on a little date yesterday afternoon.

We went into the kitchen and made chocolate chip cookies together. :)

He was a huge help to me by being so good and he actually fell asleep halfway through.

I can't wait to someday give him a cookie instead of nasty smelling formula.

His life will never be the same. :)

Little Trip

2011-11-13T12:05:00.000-08:00

This last week Brandon had 2 day meetings in Newport News so we decided to get a hotel there and stay the night. I thought it would be more work than it was worth but I was wrong and it was actually quite fun and a nice change.

Connor - Christian

While Brandon was at one of his meetings we did a little photo shoot. :) This is my favorite 1 month picture out of all the ones I took. They are getting so big already!

Daddy and his boys

The next day we slept in and started the day slow. By mid afternoon the boys were ready for their first outing with JUST me. I was nervous to take them shopping because they've been a little fussy lately but with full bellies and the comfort of a stroller they decided they'd just sleep. Thanks heavens! So, we ventured out to Costco (one of my most favorite places). We had quite the successful trip. I did almost all my Christmas shopping in under and hour. YAY!

Now I just need to get my packages in the mail.

Even though I was nervous about going out, we had a happy two days and I'm glad we went.

Dad's Visit

2011-11-10T10:52:00.000-08:00

My Dad came to visit for a week (YAY) and this is what we did while he was here.

Blessed the babies.

What a powerful moment. I'm so grateful to have a husband who is worthy to hold the priesthood and a dad, father-in-law, and cousins able to participate.

Nana, Christian, Connor, and G-diddy

Christian, Papa, and Connor

Our sweet family

Celebrated Halloween.

Ok, we didn't really celebrate but we kinda did by going out to 5 Guys and dressing the boys up. One of my good friends from church got them these adorable costumes. They're bats. :)

Christian. He loved getting his picture taken.

Connor on the other hand slept the entire time.

Connor - Christian

Giving Mommy some love

Christian (above), Connor (below)

Connor - Christian

I can hardly tell them apart in these pictures. I think it's because their heads are covered lol.

The boys helping themselves to some candy ;)

Christian

Connor

Went to a play

Brandon took his office, and me :), to see the play Beauty and The Beast. So good. Loved it. And my dad was kind enough to baby sit the boys.

Brandon's employee Michele and her daughters.

Enjoying dinner before the show.

Waiting for the show to start.

Worked

Having my dad here was a huge blessing. I don't see him as often as I'd like now that I live across the country, so it was nice to have time to visit and do projects together.

NOTE: A couple quick facts about my dad. He is the hardest worker I know, selfless, kind, spiritual, and smart. He can figure out anything and is constantly helping out others. He is the best dad I could have ever asked for. Growing up I used to complain because he'd make us kids work SO much, but now I can see the valuable lessons he taught us and the skills he helped us build. I am eternally grateful for my dad.

While he was here he redid our nasty bathroom, and I really do mean nasty. The babies were angels so I even helped out a little. We laid tile, painted, put in a new vanity and lights. It looks fabulous.

And then of course we took pictures of the boys. They are 4 weeks old in these pictures.

Connor

Christian

Connor

Christian

Thank you dad. I love you!

Last 3 Weeks

2011-10-28T14:19:00.000-07:00

The last three weeks have been wonderful. My mom was here for 2 1/2 weeks and having her has been a huge blessing. Unfortunately, she left this last Tuesday but we were able to get a lot done and even go on some outings.

Some of the things we did were...

Baking

(ok, I didn't actually bake, my mom did but I indulged and now I'm being good).

Sewing

(My mom made the blanket and burb cloth below, and I made the ones under that)

Bought flowers from Trader Joes.

(We both love flowers and these are so pretty)

Visited Colonial Williamsburg

(The weather was perfect so we decided to take the babies out. They loved it)

Grandma and Connor

Mommy and Christian

We gave the boys their first bathes. Ahhh is was the cutest thing I've ever seen!

Connor

Connor and Grandma

Christian

Mommy, Daddy, and Christian

We celebrated Toni's 50th birthday.

Love and adore my MIL.

My mom and I were planning on staying home and relaxing last Saturday but last minute we found out that babies were allowed at Time Out for Women, so we got tickets! I was nervous about going and even questioned my decision the morning I woke up, but it was well worth it. The boys were perfect and the event was extremely uplifting.

Toni, Haylea, Mom, and I

Cate and I

Cate, me, and Haylea

I miss my mom a ton already but I'm so grateful she was here.

Thank you mom for EVERYTHING. I love you.

The rest of these pictures are the boys at 3 weeks (they're 3 weeks today. CRAZY!).

Mommy and Christian

Connor holding Daddy's thumb. Ah so precious.

Connor and Christian

Connor

Christian

Connor and Christian

Christian and Connor. Look at their arms! So cute!

Love my family.

First 2 Weeks

2011-10-20T17:51:00.000-07:00

The first two weeks have been so precious. We ADORE our boys.

Connor, Daddy, Christian

Connor

Christian

Christian and Connor

Daddy and his boys

Connor, Mommy, Christian

Christian

Connor and Mommy

Connor

Christian

Connor, Christian

Love being a Mommy.

October 7th

2011-10-10T12:07:00.000-07:00

We'd like to welcome our sweet little boys to the world.

Christian Owen born at 8:22am, 6lb 4oz, 19.5 inches

and

Connor Ryan born at 8:26am, 5lb 14 oz, 19 inches

Lately I've been humming the lyrics from one of the songs from the play Wicked. Not 100% sure which song it is but it goes something like this,

"I couldn't be happier, Oh no couldn't be happier."

That is exactly how I feel. I'm in heaven and I've fallen completely and hopelessly in love.

Waiting to go to the OR

Christian and Connor

My boys givin' me some love as they finish the c-section

A proud Daddy

Christian (left), Connor (right)

Finally getting to take-in and adore my babies

A tired Mommy

A happy, happy family

Darlin :)

Aunty Haylea

Connor (left) Christian (right)

Christian (left) Connor (right)

Wrestling for the first time

Connor (left) Christian (right)

What love looks like

Christian Owen

Connor Ryan

Crab Carnival

2011-10-03T16:04:00.000-07:00

This last Saturday was the West Point crab carnival. People came from all over to shop, eat, walk, and of course stare at me (the huge pregnant lady. No joke, everyone stared and kept staring. Some guy even asked if my stomach was real. No, I just walk around with this fake belly for fun!).

Brandon set up a booth for State Farm and had a lot of success meeting, talking to, and discussing insurance with the friendly foke of West Point. I love how much he loves his job.

Brandon's adorable employee (sister), Haylea. She's doing an outstanding job as a team member and he's extremely lucky to have her.

Brandon put this wagon together all by himself. So proud of him. :)

(We missed you Steven)

The State Farm team.

37 weeks and 2 days. COME ON BABIES!

The day was perfect with great weather and fantastic food (fried oreos, chocolate covered cheesecake, philly cheese stakes, corn dogs, bbq'd ribs, and free refills on soda). It was a highly unhealthy day but the carnival only comes around once a year so, what the heck. :)

I'm already excited for next year and hoping between now and then I can find some adorable State Farm shirts for the boys. How freakin cute will that be?!

Long Night

2011-09-22T16:11:00.000-07:00

When we decided to renovate our bathroom/bedroom, putting in a nice tub was not my top priority, surprisingly. Brandon picked this out and I'm... in love.

So, after a long night with little sleep I decided this would be an appropriate afternoon activity.

The walls still need to be painted, drapes still need to be hung, and some decorating could be done, but... the water is enticingly warm, and the tub is actually big enough to engulf my entire body. Did I mention I'm in love?!

Is there something around your house that you love?

Baby Shower

2011-09-18T19:00:00.000-07:00

I want to start by saying, people are SO good to me.

Catie and Amanda, my sweet cousins, threw me a baby shower yesterday. They did a beautiful job. The theme was perfect (milk and cookies), and the afternoon relaxing, enjoyable, and exciting.

Catie, Cathy, and Amanda getting the decorations set up.

The table of delicious cakes and cookies. Who could ask for anything more?

These are two of the sweetest women you will ever meet. I look up to, admire, and love them.

My wonderful MIL

So cute!

Hay and I.

Thanks to all who helped with my shower. I loved it! And so did the boys, but they loved the cookies most. :)

Off

2011-09-15T09:48:00.000-07:00

Yesterday was a weird day for me. It was productive and busy but I was irritable, emotional, impatient, and tired. By the end of the day I just wanted to cry (being pregnant does weird things to you).

Brandon could tell something was wrong, 1. because it was obvious and 2. because I told him. But instead of letting me go to bed at 7pm he suggested taking a drive and stopping somewhere for dinner. Honestly, leaving the house was the last thing I wanted but the possibility of eating at Panera was ever so enticing.

So, a good visit and 35 minutes later we sat down to soup, macaroni, and sandwiches.

(broccoli cheese soup... divinity)

After an encouraging talk with my sweet husband and a full belly, my mood started to improve.

I'm so grateful I married my best friend who is patient, loving, and uplifting.

What an adorable, sweet man I have. :)

And, this last picture is a bit random but for all of you who want to see my pregnant belly. I'm 35 weeks today but measuring full term.

Can't wait to add two more unbelievably cute little men to my life.

Decorating

2011-09-09T12:22:00.000-07:00

My talented and creative sister-in-law, Brooke, was in town visiting last week and graciously helped me with a few decorating ideas. We were hanging around working on painting projects when we decided a quick trip to Ross, TJ Max, and Target at 8pm would be helpful in spicing things up around the house.

These are of few of the things we picked out.

I'm in love with these pillows. :)

I love everything we bought and wish Brooke could have stayed another week to help me make my house more into a home. But, I'm extremely grateful for the one night I got.

(Thank you Brooke! You're wonderful.)

What are some decorating ideas you have?

How can I spice my house up even more?

We're Back

2011-09-06T07:20:00.000-07:00

We're back and have been for several weeks but I've been procrastinating this post for some time. Maybe because I took so many pictures and it's slightly overwhelming. But, today is the day. I will post.

August was a busy month for us. We had several family events in California that were absolute bliss.

1st. My brother in law, Chris, married his high school sweet heart, Hanna, in the Oakland temple on August 5th. This was the first sealing I'd been to and it was beautiful.

The adorable couple

The girls

The boys

Chris and Brandon

2nd. One of my dear friends, Allie, and her mom threw me a baby shower.
They had everything decorated in blue and green with adorable little outfits hung about.
The shower made me even more excited to have these sweet little men in my life and I'm so grateful they took the time to think of "us". :)

Allie and I

Sisters and cousins

3rd. My little brother got home from his mission he served in Ecuador.

We were suppose to pick him up from the Chico airport at 10:40pm but he missed his flight from San Fran. :( He didn't end up getting home till 4:30am but there was still tons of people there to welcome him home. There's really nothing quite like a missionary coming home.

Jon 'N' Bons

The sisters

The brothers

The entire family back together again after 4 years.

4th. The family went camping to Lake Almanor.

I wasn't sure how much I'd be able to do being pregnant but it actually wasn't so bad.

I can still beat my mom in a kayak race.

What our trip consisted most of. Relaxing. :)

Our campsite was right on the water. Seriously, we were almost in the water. So, every night this is what we ate dinner to.

Our trip was wonderful. I love my home. I love my family.

We're Off!

2011-08-03T08:59:00.000-07:00

Brandon and I leave for California today!
Goodness time goes by fast.

We return in two weeks. I'll update you on all our

fabulous adventures when we get home. :)

(Bidwell Park, California)

Lately

2011-07-23T19:31:00.000-07:00

Well, for all of you who don't already know, we're moving.. 20 minutes away and into a little town called West Point. Brandon works there now so his drive will be shortened from 20 to 5 minutes. We're happy. :)

We're taking boxes over a few at a time but our house is messy and looks something like this...

We should be all moved out a week from today into our 1979 house (below) that is growing on me a little more each day. I wasn't thrilled about moving in the beginning but the more we work on it, the better it looks, and the happier I get. :)

So, that is what we've been up to lately. Lots of trips to Home Depot and Lowes, picking out things we never knew existed. But it has been exciting and it will feel good to get settled in.

Because of the move, we've been procrastinating a few things such as, buying anything baby related. I honestly hadn't bought one thing for our boys until a few days ago (with less then 3 months to go, that's probably cutting it a little close).
However, recently I was browsing around Target and found these...

I'm not sure there's anything cuter on a baby then a onesie. I still have a long ways to go in getting ready, but I thought this was a fabulous start.
(Looking forward to the day when I can post pictures
of babies in clothes instead of just clothes ha)

Eternal Families

2011-07-20T06:01:00.000-07:00

The last couple days I've taken care of a woman who's 41 and was diagnosed with colon cancer 2 years ago. After receiving an MRI on admission the doctor's realized her cancer had spread to her brain. Because the cancer is now in her brain she is less aware of her surroundings, confused, and belligerent. It has been hard for me to separate her from her disease, so today I asked her husband to tell me what she was like before the cancer changed her. Loving, sweet, amazing mother, determined, and lively were just a few of the words he used. As he spoke his eyes filled with tears. He said he was married before and it was a miracle that she came into his life after he divorced.

Unfortunately, her prognosis is poor and the longer she goes without radiation, which she's in too much pain to get, the worse the cancer becomes.

As I gave report this afternoon the husband told us he was leaving to get their son who needed to see his mom. I had kept my emotions in check throughout the day but seeing this man's eyes fill with tears once again broke my heart. I choked back tears of my own as I watched him leave.

What a joy it is to know my family is forever. I often wish those I loved lived closer, but knowing I have eternity, lifts my spirits everytime.

"At the end of your life, you will never regret not having passed one more test, not winning one more verdict, or not closing one more deal. You will regret time not spent with a husband, a friend, a child, or a parent." Barbara Bush

A Lazy Afternoon

2011-07-11T14:43:00.000-07:00

When I got home from work today I put my feet up, made a delicious bag of popcorn, and turned on Anne Of Green Gables. I forgot how much I adore that movie. Anne is hysterical with her extensive vocabulary and wild enthusiasm.

I love a lazy day here and there. :)

What do you like to do with your lazy days?

Two Years

2011-07-05T15:03:00.000-07:00

Brandon and I celebrated our 2 year anniversary this last Sunday. I truly believe I'm the luckiest girl alive and I couldn't have dreamt of a better husband.

And how adorable is this?!

xoxoxo

Build On A Rock

2011-06-28T17:05:00.000-07:00

And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the wind blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell not, for it was founded upon a rock.
3 Nephi 14:25

Generosity

2011-06-27T13:42:00.000-07:00

Several months ago, shortly after finding out I was pregnant, I was taking care of a patient at work who was getting ready to go home. As I was visiting with he and his wife, the topic of my pregnancy came up. After their congratulations and gook luck wishes, my patient's wife asked for my address so she could send me a homemade blanket. I wasn't sure what the policy was regarding giving out personal info but she was persisted, so I gave her what she needed and they were on their way.

Last week when I got home from work there was a large white box on the table. I didn't recognize the name or address but got right to opening it nonetheless. Inside I found a card that read..

Whitney, We heard you were expecting twins so we doubled the blankets. I hope you like pooh. I thought the fabric was adorable. Thank you for being a great nurse while Eddie was at Sentara. Congratulations and best wishes to you, your husband, and the little ones when they arrive. Thanks again and we wish you all the very best of everything.

Under the card, this is what I found.

I'm not sure how she found out we were having twins but she sent us two beautiful blankets for each baby. I only took care of her husband for 2 days, I barely knew them, but that didn't matter to her. What a remarkable woman and inspirational example. I'm going to try and be more like her. :)

Berry Picking

2011-06-17T12:21:00.000-07:00

On Tuesday Jill and I were looking for something to do so we decided to take a ferry to Surry and pick blueberries. It was a sunny and warm day, perfect for being outside.

The farm was beautiful and I'm already planning a trip back to pick pumpkins. :)

After our blueberry adventure Jill talked me into stopping

at the Humane Society to look at kittens.

Oh my goodness they were cute!

Thanks for the fun day Jill! Love ya girl.

Sisters

2011-06-08T06:44:00.000-07:00

This last week my two little sisters came to visit. We went to the beach, shopped, ate out, played games, and teased Brandon. It was wonderful and I wish with all my heart my family lived closer (hint, hint).

Janae left on Monday but Jill is staying indefinitely, so there are still lots of fun times to come. :)

Oh how I love my sisters.

Greenbrier

2011-05-23T07:36:00.000-07:00

Last week Brandon and I spent several days at the Greenbrier resort in West Virginia. Once again it was a business trip he qualified for. What a hard worker he is!

It rained everyday we were there so we spent a lot of time indoors relaxing and reading, trying to enjoy and soak up our last months of quiet, alone time, and sleep. ;)

The cottage we stayed in.

The last evening there we had a formal dinner.

I could barely get my dress on at 18 weeks pregnant.

My handsome and charming husband.

During one of Brandon's meetings I did some shopping. I found an adorable magnet calendar that was a bit pricey but I felt I HAD to have. Before making this purchase I thought I'd be better to clear it with the hubz first. Bad idea. I'm not sure why but he didn't find it nearly as appealing as me. ;) Needless to say, when we left the resort, it was not with us, or so I thought...

I had to work the day after we got back and after late mornings and a nap here and there, getting my sleepy eyes to open was not easy. As I walked into the kitchen to fix some breakfast this is what I found.

The calendar with the magnets formed to say I love u and a note singing my praises.
I couldn't wipe the smile off my face the entire day. I didn't HAVE to have the calendar like I'd thought, but for Brandon to be so sneaky, sweet, and thoughtful melted my heart.

I'm so happy Brandon picked me to spend the rest of his life with.

Smile

2011-05-18T15:04:00.000-07:00

I've been humming the song Smile by Nat King Cole the entire evening.
So, in honor of that song, I'll share something that's been putting a smile on my face lately.

This year I decided to plant flower in pots instead of in the ground out front because the dirt is lacking in nutrients, our front flower beds are full of weeds, and last year they died after a couple months.
One morning on my way out the door for work I realized I wouldn't have time to water my new flowers. So, I texted Brandon asking him if he'd do it before he left.
They line the front steps so I didn't think he's miss them. Later that evening when I got home I stood out front admiring my beautiful pots. Brandon pulled up moments later and as I'm standing there he walks up and says, "Oh! You wanted me to water those?" I replied, "Yes, these are my flowers." He then said, "I watered these plants." And points to the mountain of weeds growing in the front of our house. For some reason the fact that he watered the weeds and not the obvious flowers is hysterical to me. Even now, I'm still giggling.

What is putting a smile on your face?

April

2011-05-13T11:30:00.000-07:00

April brought us a month of delicious traveling. :)

Last year Brandon qualified for level 3 ambassador travel through State Farm.

The trip included stops to Grand Turk, St. Thomas, St. Maarten, and Half Moon Cay, Bahamas.

Brandon dominating in a ping pong tournament.

Our first dinner on the ship.

Our first stop was Grand Turk. It was cloudy when we arrived but the sun came out by the time we got to shore.

Brandon receiving a massage on the beach.

Don't worry, I got one too. It was heaven.

St. Thomas was our second stop.

We spend the day on the beach.

St. Maarten was our third stop. We spent our honeymoon there as well. :)

We spend the day taking a tour of part of the island on a rhino rider with 23 other couples.

It was a little hard on the toosh but the views were stunning.

Our final stop was Half Moon Cay.

My favorite.

I've never seen a prettier beach in my life.

Our last dinner.

The cruise was amazing in every way.

Thank you Brandon for working so hard!

The second part of our trip we spent in Utah. I went to women's conference and Brandon visited his nephews.

I had an outstanding time and I'm so thankful I got to see and visit with friends and family.

There's always to many blessings to count.

Feeling Grateful

2011-04-14T07:30:00.000-07:00

Good things come to those that wait.

Not that I really waited long, but I like the saying.

Two sweet little babies.

We couldn't be happier.

Nags Head

2011-04-08T09:24:00.000-07:00

This last weekend Brandon and I spent in Nags Head, NC.

We stayed at a beach house with several families from church.

We started our trip off right.

The house was beautiful with unique pieces of furniture which I adored.
This is my dream table.

The first two days the beach was cool and windy but our third and last day it was sunny and warm.

One of the highlights for me was going to the Life Is Good store where I got this cute key chain and a vase.

Great company, beautiful weather, yummy food.

What more could ya want?

What Next?

2011-03-31T11:44:00.000-07:00

I'm on a quest. A quest to find the best books. The ones rated 5/5.

They need to have "couldn't put it down" status.

So... I want your favorite books. What should I read next?

The quality of book I'm looking for is along the lines of...

I'm not picky on the tpye of book as long as you think it's a 5/5.

Hoping for some good ideas.

Stuck

2011-03-22T09:44:00.000-07:00

When I get my mind stuck on something, it's stuck. For years my mind has been stuck on owning a piano. Instead of making an impulse buy I've tried to be smart and take my time in searching for the perfect piano. It was hard. I'm not patient, but after hours on craigslist and many trips to various destinations, I found what I was looking for.

My determination paid off.

My biggest worry in purchasing a piano was whether I'd actually love and be happy with it once I got it home.

Well, worry no more! I'm in love. :)

What are you stuck on?!

A Moment Of Weakness

2011-03-18T07:20:00.000-07:00

Now that I'm eating for 2, I've been trying to eat a bit more healthy. But anyone who knows me knows I don't have the greatest self control when it comes to sweets.

So, in a moment of weakness, last night I indulged.

Do I feel bad?

NO.

What is one of your favorite things to indulge in?

Hope

2011-03-15T15:56:00.000-07:00

Hope is like the sun, which, as we journey towards it, casts the shadow of our burden behind us. Hope sweetens the memory of experiences well loved. It tempers our troubles to our growth and our strength. It befriends us in the dark hours, excites us in the bright ones. It lends promise to the future and purpose to the past. It turns discouragement to determination. -Samuel Smiles

It's Amazing What...

2011-03-06T14:46:00.000-08:00

It's amazing what a walk on a sunny day can do for the spirit.

Spring is two weeks away and I'm thrilled.

I'm ready for..

the leaves to return,

flower pots,

mowing the lawn (never thought I'd say that),

walks with my husband,

going to the park,

bbq's,

and a number of other things.

I think this might be my favorite time of year because winter is saying goodbye and oh how I love to see it go. :)

I think I can, I think I can, I think I can!

2011-02-22T19:03:00.000-08:00

Months ago I decided I wanted to read the Book of Mormon the ENTIRE WAY THROUGH. So, I made a reading chart and got started. A few days later I missed a day, then another, oh wait.. then another. I got so far behind that it didn't seem worth it anymore and gave up. Sigh.

However, I recently got new found determination. Starting March 1st I will begin reading the BOM and this time I will finish. My last day should be May 31st.

If anyone would like to join in this adventure, let me know.

Wish me luck. :)

Temple Day

2011-02-19T15:34:00.000-08:00

Today Brandon and I went to DC where we spent the morning at the temple. It was a beautiful day, windy but sunny, and just warm enough for me to wear a short sleeve shirt. :)

After our session we went to Pizza Mart where we devoured the largest slice of pizza we'd ever seen.

Near pizza mark was a yogurt shop. I've been craving yogurt since the last time I went to Jon "N" Bons. Oh sweet Jon "N" Bons, how I love thee. So, I snuck over while Brandon finished his slice and got grapefruit/raspberry yogurt. Delish.

Happy, peaceful, yummy day.

Early Summer

2011-02-14T10:16:00.000-08:00

For Christmas/Valentines Day Brandon and I decided to go to Cancun, Mexico instead of exchanging gifts. Brilliant idea. We spent 6 days enjoying the culture, warmth of the sun, and gorgeous beaches. Our trip seemed to have several themes.

1. Adventure

2. Food

3. Feet up

4. The Beach

Adventure

Brandon has wanted to swim with dolphins for quite some time so after sitting through a 2 hr sales pitch we got tickets 2 for the price of 1.

I was a little apprehensive at first but it didn't take long to warm up.

We did some research to find the best place to snorkel. Below are pictures of Xel Ha where we biked, tubed, and snorkeled. The water was amazingly clear, clean, and cool.

One of the caves we snorkeled in.

This is Market 28 where we enjoyed authentic tacos, bought souvenirs, and I got my hair braided.

Our hotel (Me by Melia)

One of my favorite days was spent on the island Isla Murjeres. We bummed on the beach where we burned (fitting for our last day), stuffed our faces with tacos, and roamed the streets.

Watching the Superbowl. Go Packers!!

Food

We stayed at an all inclusive resort, so you know what that means... Trouble. I've never eaten so much food in my entire life, but it was worth every bite.

Our breakfast nearly everyday. Breakfast is my favorite meal. I was in heaven.

Lunch on Isla Mujeres

Feet Up

At work I'm on my feet all day and rarely sit down, so any chance I got I put my feet up and stayed awhile.

We found these hammocks as we were exploring Xel Ha. The sun had just come threw the clouds so we stretched out and slept for nearly an hour. Complete bliss.

The Beach

The backyard of our hotel.

Xel Ha

Isla Murjeres

Mexico was like an early summer for us. I think we might have to make trips instead of gifts a tradition. :)

December

2011-01-10T17:17:00.000-08:00

Behind

2010-12-03T09:56:00.000-08:00

I'm sooo BEHIND on my BLOGGING!

EeSH.. Sorry. We've been busy but here is a little of what we've been up to lately...

In October we took a much anticipated trip to New York City.
Was saw West Side Story and Billie Elliot on Broadway.

But the majority of our trip consisted of eating and walking.
And I'm not kidding. Eat, walk.. Eat, walk. I probably

could have done with a little less walking though. :)

But the food. Holy cow! It was exceptional.

Some of the places we visited include the empire state building,

central park, farmers market, canal st., little Italy, rockefeller center, and the plaza hotel from home alone.

Bye NY, we love u.

In November my brother in law, Chris, got home from his mission and over

Thanksgiving the entire Redfern family came out to visit.

It was wonderful. We loved seeing our nephews again and visitingwith the siblings.

Each month seems to being something exciting. December has already brought us a trip to see The Lion King in Norfolk which we absolutely loved!
(The costumes where amazing)

And it will soon bring me a trip to my California to visit my family.

I will try to be better at keeping everything up to date on our life. :)

Happy Holidays!

Confession

2010-10-27T17:31:00.000-07:00

Confession.

I started listening to Christmas music on the first of October.

Don't judge me.

I guess I'm just one of those people who doesn't think December is enough. :)

But for now..

Open Heart

2010-10-11T19:31:00.000-07:00

After almost 24 years of living, I've obviously learned a little here and there, but two of the most important things I've learned are to have an open heart, and to appreciate others.

"Only an open heart will allow you to float equally between everyone."

~Tuesdays With Morrie

I read that quote several years ago and have thought about it a number of times since. Whenever I get mad or frustrated with someone I try and think how I could further open my heart and have charity towards he/she.

President Monson taught, "Charity is having patience with someone who has let us down.

It is resisting the impulse to become offended easily. It is accepting weaknesses and shortcomings.

It is accepting people as they truly are. It is looking behond physical appearances to attributes that will not dim through time. It is resisting the impulse to categorize others... We need the kind of charity that forgives, the kind of charity that is patient."

How different the world would be if each of us could be more like that. How different I would be.

As I was cleaning, dressing, doing wound changes, and giving meds to a patient yesterday I asked an aide for help. She came in without complaint and assisted me with what she could.

I called my momma recently with a concern and she stopped what she was doing and spent an hour encouraging and supporting me.

I knelt on the floor in tears after a particually hard day and asked my Heavenly Father to take away some of the pain I was feeling.

It is so important and easy to say, Thank You. Oh how grateful I am for all the help I receive in my life. When people appreciate me, I feel good, and I know when i appreciate others, they do, too.

Be grateful. Say thank you. Love others.

Fall

2010-09-28T15:21:00.000-07:00

Fall, I love everything about you.

But most of all, I love..

the holidays to come,

a Oct trip to NYC,

all the color changes,

rainy days,

hot coco,

a possible trip home,

family gatherings,

a mission homecoming,

gift giving,

and wearing boots.

What do you love?

Spence

2010-09-17T09:46:00.000-07:00

The mission is the best experience in the world. Not because it’s fun but because it has changed my life so much and given me the opportunity to look at things from a different perspective. I feel like I now know who I am in this life a lot better and what I want, but more important I know who my Father in Heaven is and what he expects of me. The Church is true.

~Elder Spencer Keables

This is my little brother. He's serving his mission in Qualaquil, Ecuador. He carried this man to the font to be baptized because he's crippled. He is one of my heroes. I love him. I miss him.

Megs and Me

2010-09-06T16:53:00.000-07:00

One of my best friends, Meg, came to NC to visit her sister this last week and since I only live 3 hours away.. I went down to visit her. :) I hadn't seen her since my wedding so getting to catch up and visit was wonderful. We spent our day walking around the Raleigh temple, dining at Olive Garden, eating ice cream, watching You've Got Mail, baking muffins, and loving on her nephews. It was bliss.

Trying to get in my baby fix.

How lucky I am to have had such amazing friends.

Love u Megs.

SF

2010-09-01T11:47:00.000-07:00

The last couple days Brandon and I spent in Richmond. He attended a State Farm conference for all the agents in the north/east area and I tagged along to keep him company. It was nice getting to meet new people and visit with the ones we'd already met. As we were leaving Brandon turned to me and said, "I work for one of the top 10 companies in America." He loves his job. :)

Relaxin

About to head to dinner.

And I love him.

Gosh!

2010-08-26T20:13:00.000-07:00

Wow.. I haven't blogged in days. Terribly sorry about that. Summer has been wonderful and so full of fun. At the beginning of August Brandon and I spent the week in California with my family. We were only in Chico for one day so with that precious day we visited Dean, Sam, and June.

Brandon and I both agree we haven't met a more enthusiastic and positive couple in our entire lives. They are wonderful plus they have one of the cutest babies I've seen.

Camping was awesome, but... Too short. Getting to see my family was amazing but I always wish they were coming home with me when I leave. Maybe someday my parents will admit I'm their favorite child and move out here.

August was also the month Bree returned home from her mission.

Happy day:)

Love u Bree.

And... It was the month I got my job. I'm working at Sentara Regional Medical Center in Williamsburg on the Acute Rehab/Oncology floor. I work 7a-7p three days a week and loving it so far.

There is a lot to learn and it's a little overwhelming but if I can make even the slightest difference to someone, I'll be happy.

The last wonderful event August held for Brandon and I was a trip to Hilton Head, NC with his family.

It had rained a few days before we arrived but was completely sunny each day we were there. Overall, August has been brilliant. Mostly because I got to spend so much time with family which is hands down my favorite thing. Brandon and I are extremely blessed.